Once a nerdy, skinny professor of philosophical psychology who couldn’t hold a conversation to save his life, David is now director of Aura Transformation Corp., and a world renowned dating and life coach using therapeutic methods.
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In episode 27, we talk about how to make attractive female friends.
Masculinity for the Intelligent Man. I am David Tian, Ph.D., and this is: Man Up.
Welcome to Man Up, episode 27. My name is David Tian, Ph.D., on behalf of Aura Transformation Corporation. Got a great question from the Man Up private Facebook group, from Bryan and it’s basically: How do I make attractive female friends? Great question Bryan! It’s actually not that different from making friends with like cool male friends, okay? But I think I know – because he had this long background, preamble to the question. And the issue is, often, just like with many guys – the issue isn’t so much, “How do I make friends with females?” as “How do I make friends with a certain type of female?” Basically, the type of female that he has nothing in common with.
If you’re a manly man and you do a lot of sports, you’re always doing like CrossFit stuff or you’re doing MMA classes or – what are some other tips for the typical guy, stereotypical guy stuff – you like to play computer games, video games. It’s relatively easy to make friends with girls who like to do the same thing. If you’re a video gamer, it’s pretty easy to make friends with female video gamers. If you’re in the BJJ gym a lot, it’s relatively easy to make friends with female BJJ practitioners.
If you’re at the CrossFit gym, it’s relatively easy to make friends with the girls at the CrossFit gym. Based on what Bryan was saying, it looks like he doesn’t do many activities, at all, because of his busy work schedule. First step is to develop some passions, not just hobbies. Everyone has hobbies but of course, to discover your passions, a good way to start is to try some hobbies, right? But to get passionate about something, to develop strong interest, deep – not just wide, not just lots of little things a little bit – but deep interest in things are really important. Just to develop your happiness and fulfillment, let alone getting girls or whatever. So that’s one thing.
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